A Dark Shadow

A simple poetry that describes a shadow who always walk with us in every condition, whether you like its company or not.


Still With Me


She remains behind me on sun-set
and chase me on sunrise
with my sadness and despair
she goes darker and darker
always sticks to me in narrow streets
where i feel like a helpless
who is in every alley and every row
it is none other than my shadow
walks with me like a slave
without any expression and name
in nights it gets disappear
but not always, very rare
" i don't like this hide and seek
stop to playing silly games with me"
i warned her with loud voice
Oh, how stubborn she is, you see
still walking with me.


Now And Forever


I found myself alone today
neither i have hope nor way
my friends and my closer
nobody wants to stay with me
and i became a looser
i am sitting in middle of the road
trying to find the shore
when i felt a breath on my neck
i saw a shadow behind my back
"oh, you still with me in my pain
why you're sitting in my tear's rain"
i whispered to her, with low voice
" because i am so stubborn, you see
i am here because you need me
Now and Forever"
she said this and passed a smile
still she's walking with me without any noise.

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

Which is more suitable, Love or Arranged?

marriage

In Indian culture and traditions, arranged marriage prefer then love marriage, but now things are changing.But sometimes questions arise due to the un-successful love marriages that which one is better, Love marriage or Arranged marriages ? There is need to understand such conditions as without mutual understanding and affectionate for each other, marriage can not be successful, no matter it is arranged or love.

Arranged Marriage

Mostly, in indian culture arrange marriages happens as parents do not prefer love marriages due to the caste and other thousands reasons.Its not always that arranged marriage are successful or love marriage are successful. In arranged marriage if any kind of problem arise in between couples, parents do support the relationship and they try their best to keep the relationship. Arranged marriage are good in aspect of their life styles and culture because boy and girl are of same caste and religion, it does not take long time for girl to adjust in the family.On the other hand, parents are more careful and supportive for the girl who married according to their wish.But arranged marriage also has some disadvantages which is necessary to discuss here. All of a sudden,both boy and girl start to share their life with one another who are strange and hardly spend any time together. Difficulties arise when you do not like the person whom you are going to marry, but you have to do it because your parents and elders decided your marriage. Some get their love after marriage and enjoy their life. Some believes its their fate and parents are happy but some break up.

Love Marriage

In love marriage, both boy and girl know each other. They know each other’s liking and dislikings. they have mutual understanding and caring for each other. They know each other’s before marriage and they know how to spend time and adjust with each other.They know that they are not going with a stranger or may not have any problem if they know each other well before marriage.You should make sure that your partner likes you as well and is not agreeing marriage under any pressure from his/her parents or any other reason. Advantage of love marriage is this that you know each other well before marriage and you are sure that you can get along well.

Mutual understanding and Love is necessary in marriage, no matter Love or Arranged

Love Marriage can become un-successful, if you do not know each other for long time and just decided to get married, also if love marriage is happen against parents will and they do not support them when problems arise. Mutual understanding and love is necessary in the relationship, without which any realtionship can not be complete. No matter it is arrange or love marriage but for any kind of relation, there should be respect and caring for each other. The most important thing in the relation which provides a strong base for relation is trust.Where there is trust, no problem can stay for longer.One should prefer partner’s thinking and views, its not mean that you ignore your own views but should try to understand partner’s feelings. When there will be a feeling of understanding, sacrifice and of love for each other, relation become stronger automatically.

So marriage is decided in heaven, then what happen if it is love marriage or arranged, but love,trust and mutual understanding makes relationship stronger.

12 Ways to keep you busy

Broken-Heart

Are you want to know what to do in your spare time? or do you want to keep yourself busy after having a break-up? I have some tips and ideas to keep yourself busy and to overcome from your past or recent break-up which is making you crazy. Difficulties arise when one partner wants to break-up but we are very serious about the relationships and possesive for the partner, this is the most weird situation for the person. We find that situation very tough when we find us unable to forget him/her. There are some useful tips which can definitely help you to overcome from your past or recent break-up.

Are you want to know what to do in your spare time? or do you want to keep yourself busy after having a break-up? I have some tips and ideas to keep yourself busy and to overcome from your past or recent break-up which is making you crazy. Difficulties arise when one partner wants to break-up but we are very serious about the relationships and possesive for the partner, this is the most weird situation for the person. We find that situation very tough when we find us unable to forget him/her. There are some useful tips which can definitely help you to overcome from your past or recent break-up. 

• In this kind of situations, most of us try to convience their partner by calling him/her again and again,sometimes it works but not always. Stop this first. This can make your partner irritate. If he/she are not replying to your calls and messeges, just stop it and give him/her sometime if he/she wants.

• Second, Do not shut yourself in a dark room. Go outside and do lots of shoppings with friends, this will make you relax and tension-free in all situations. Try once.

• Do your favourite things or hobbies you like the most which you have been left because your partner was against it. It will make you happy as well as improve your hobbies quality.

• Make friends. Friends are very important in our life, they share evreything to you and feels you relax. If you are shy nature but really want to make friends so you can also join some networking sites.

• If you are feeling bored in spare time and everytime think about your past, why do you not earn something by keeping yourself busy? Just google and find there many sites where you can earn money by writing articles, blogging etc. This will give you a direction to find new ways to overcome from your current situation.

• Participate in social activities like donations for poor childs, old age home or by helping someone. Make this your habit. This will give you satisfaction as well as happiness from inside.

• Be postive in every situation, it is difficult but will help you to stay away negative energies. Use some postive energy tips.

• Meditate every day in the morning hours. Meditation keep your mind fresh and calm, it will help to keep you cool in a negative situations and decrease your anger also.

• Listening music. A calm music make your mind relax, but try to listen classical music and avoid sad songs.

• Remove those things and all gift items from your room which belongs to him/her. This will force you to think about him/her. Try to decorate your room with new ideas and sufficient lights.

• Never think that you are not according to his/her wish or you have some weaknesses. keep some time for you only and make yourself smart, change your hairstyles or dressing sense. This change will bring a postive attitude and confidence in you.

And now last but not the least, do not involve in other relationship if you have a recent break-up. Some people thinks by involving in another relationship they will be able to forget your past but it is not a right thing. Just give yourself sometime to think about yourself and make the life clear without any hardles.

Birthday Protest Converted In Victory Celebration

12 Days Of Fasting

Anna on fasting

Anna Hazare, is a social activist and he has served as a soldier for 15 years in Indian army, now at the age of 74 was on fast since 16 august 2011 against the corruption. Anna and his team members wanted to pass Jan Lokpal Bill from which ' 65 percent corruption can be remove from India if government pass this bill ' in Anna's words. I support his because Jan Lokpal Bill if implemented will give teeth to fight corruption effectively. It will acts as an effective deterrent against corruption. Investigation of any corruption case will be initiated and completed within one year and those guilty will be punished within two years. Lokpal will even have the power to persecute corrupt politicians. There will be no interference from politicians and bureaucrats as it will be an independent body like Supreme Court and Election Commission. Therefore, the bill if enacted will act as the most potent weapon in the war against corruption.
During his fast all were praying for his health including me..Anna was feeling weakness but he was not ready to break his fast when doctors told him for a drip and there was no reply from government on Jan Lokpal bill issue. They were just requesting to break his fast but at the last they had to pass Jan Lokpal bill to the standing committee.

Anna Hazare ended his 12 days fast on 28 august morning before thousands of cheering supporters at Ramleela Maidan.

21 August Protest At India Gate

Protest At India-gate

I had decided not to celebrate my birthday which was on 27 August because he was my idol and i was worrying for his health. I participated in Anna's movement and joined a march from India gate to Ramlila Maidan with thousands supporters. It was a great feeling that i got a chance to contribute in this second big movement of India. All the roads towards India Gate and Ramlila Maidan were filled with sea of humanity. Thousands of people participated in dharnas, protest rallies, motorcycle rallies and car rallies in different parts of the country in support of the 74-year-old anti-corruption crusader. Protests were going in different parts of India and in this movement a positive thing is that protests were going with peacefully in whole India.

27 August At Ramleela Maidan

Anna at Ramlila Maidan

on 27 august i decided to go to the Ramlila Maidan to support Anna's movement. Tens of thousands had also gathered at the Ramlila maidan to fight against the corruption. All supporters were giving their support in favour of Jan Lokpal Bill but they were also worrying for Anna's health. Worry could be seen on every face, of course it was 12 Th day of fasting of Anna Hazare. Bollywood actor Aamir Khan met Anna Hazare at Ramlila Maidan also.
Bharatiya Janata Party MP Sushma Swaraj, during the debate in Lok Sabha, expressed her party's support for Anna Hazare, and said the BJP largely agrees with the three pre-conditions(Citizen's Charter, Lokayuktas in all states with Lokpal powers and inclusion of lowest to highest bureaucracy) laid down by Anna to end his hunger strike and was willing to vote in favour it. Both the houses had passed the resolution agreeing upon all the three conditions set by Anna in Jan Lokpal Bill.
After that Anna declared of breaking fast on Sunday 28 august morning at 10 am as he avoids to do any holy work during Sun-set. In next morning Anna ended his fast after 288 hours before thousands of cheering supporters at Ramlila Maidan. It was a memorable moment for every person who was supporting Anna. A victory march took out at India Gate. Currently, Anna is in Medanta Hospital which is located in Gudgaon. Dr. Naresh Trehan told that Anna is now recovering and will be discharge in 1 or 2 days. I wish him a very healthy and long life from the behalf of whole India.

Colorful wedding With Mehndi

Mehndi, also called Henna, paste is usually applied on the skin using a plastic cone or a paint brush.After that it has to keep around three to six hours, or overnight and then removed. When first removed, the henna design is pale to dark orange in colour and gradually darkens through oxidation.

Mehndi, also called Henna is popular mainly in India and Pakistan among ladies and it is used in various occasions, mostly in weddings. It is a temporary form of skin decoration, Without Mehndi on hands and feet bride's make-up consider incomplete as in Indian culture Mehndi consider auspicious for bride. It is usually drawn on palms and feet where the color will be darkest.

Side Effects Of Black-Mehndi

Black Mehndi

In the modern age, people buy ready-made henna cones, which are ready to use and make painting easy. According to the desire, for Tattoo black appearance some people have started to adding the synthetic dye p-Phenylenediamine (PPD) to henna to give it a black color which is very harmful to the skin and it can cause severe allergic reactions resulting permanent injury.

Arabic Mehndi Art

New Mehndi Design

The most simple art in Mehndi Designs is Arabic art in which loose and bold big flower designs are used. They do not cover the feet or hands all the way through and leave more spaces that is why Arabic art is very easy and convenient to paint.
Arabic art is mostly is applied by the girls on festivals, parties or in a fashion show as it does not cover the whole palm area and seems light.

Bridal mehndi Art

Bridal Mehndi Design

An easy way to apply Bridal mehndi designs is with brush for beginners and for those who do not make mistakes. But the good effect comes when it it done by free- hand. Another method for bridal mehndi design through mehndi cones. Mehndi cones gives smooth and fine lines to the design if design is very complicated as well as heavy in look wise.

Intricate patterns of mehndi generally applied to the brides before wedding ceremony.In some states of India, Mehndi is drawn on the palm n feet of bridegroom also. On the other side in some states, before the wedding night , a night is dedicated to decorating the bride with henna and it is called 'Henna Night'

My Own Raindrop

I sit on the window, gaze rolling sky

whenever its rain i take a sigh….

I feel something like pain in heart

and it makes me little cry….

I want to hold these raindrops

which falls on the roads…..

I can feel its music

when it touches and makes little pound….

beyond and above

I wish a cloud…..

without boundaries, and bond

With my own raindrops…..

touching inside my soul

want to hold these raindrops

Falling in my dreams….

whenever its rain i take a sigh

and open teary-eyed…

tear falls on my palm

And its like a star…

want to hold these teardrop

present inside in my heart

it touches my soul

and i know its my own….