Which is more suitable, Love or Arranged?
In Indian culture and traditions, arranged marriage prefer then love marriage, but now things are changing.But sometimes questions arise due to the un-successful love marriages that which one is better, Love marriage or Arranged marriages ? There is need to understand such conditions as without mutual understanding and affectionate for each other, marriage can not be successful, no matter it is arranged or love.
Arranged Marriage
Mostly, in indian culture arrange marriages happens as parents do not prefer love marriages due to the caste and other thousands reasons.Its not always that arranged marriage are successful or love marriage are successful. In arranged marriage if any kind of problem arise in between couples, parents do support the relationship and they try their best to keep the relationship. Arranged marriage are good in aspect of their life styles and culture because boy and girl are of same caste and religion, it does not take long time for girl to adjust in the family.On the other hand, parents are more careful and supportive for the girl who married according to their wish.But arranged marriage also has some disadvantages which is necessary to discuss here. All of a sudden,both boy and girl start to share their life with one another who are strange and hardly spend any time together. Difficulties arise when you do not like the person whom you are going to marry, but you have to do it because your parents and elders decided your marriage. Some get their love after marriage and enjoy their life. Some believes its their fate and parents are happy but some break up.
Love Marriage
In love marriage, both boy and girl know each other. They know each other’s liking and dislikings. they have mutual understanding and caring for each other. They know each other’s before marriage and they know how to spend time and adjust with each other.They know that they are not going with a stranger or may not have any problem if they know each other well before marriage.You should make sure that your partner likes you as well and is not agreeing marriage under any pressure from his/her parents or any other reason. Advantage of love marriage is this that you know each other well before marriage and you are sure that you can get along well.
Mutual understanding and Love is necessary in marriage, no matter Love or Arranged
Love Marriage can become un-successful, if you do not know each other for long time and just decided to get married, also if love marriage is happen against parents will and they do not support them when problems arise. Mutual understanding and love is necessary in the relationship, without which any realtionship can not be complete. No matter it is arrange or love marriage but for any kind of relation, there should be respect and caring for each other. The most important thing in the relation which provides a strong base for relation is trust.Where there is trust, no problem can stay for longer.One should prefer partner’s thinking and views, its not mean that you ignore your own views but should try to understand partner’s feelings. When there will be a feeling of understanding, sacrifice and of love for each other, relation become stronger automatically.
So marriage is decided in heaven, then what happen if it is love marriage or arranged, but love,trust and mutual understanding makes relationship stronger.
Arranged Marriage
Mostly, in indian culture arrange marriages happens as parents do not prefer love marriages due to the caste and other thousands reasons.Its not always that arranged marriage are successful or love marriage are successful. In arranged marriage if any kind of problem arise in between couples, parents do support the relationship and they try their best to keep the relationship. Arranged marriage are good in aspect of their life styles and culture because boy and girl are of same caste and religion, it does not take long time for girl to adjust in the family.On the other hand, parents are more careful and supportive for the girl who married according to their wish.But arranged marriage also has some disadvantages which is necessary to discuss here. All of a sudden,both boy and girl start to share their life with one another who are strange and hardly spend any time together. Difficulties arise when you do not like the person whom you are going to marry, but you have to do it because your parents and elders decided your marriage. Some get their love after marriage and enjoy their life. Some believes its their fate and parents are happy but some break up.
Love Marriage
In love marriage, both boy and girl know each other. They know each other’s liking and dislikings. they have mutual understanding and caring for each other. They know each other’s before marriage and they know how to spend time and adjust with each other.They know that they are not going with a stranger or may not have any problem if they know each other well before marriage.You should make sure that your partner likes you as well and is not agreeing marriage under any pressure from his/her parents or any other reason. Advantage of love marriage is this that you know each other well before marriage and you are sure that you can get along well.
Mutual understanding and Love is necessary in marriage, no matter Love or Arranged
Love Marriage can become un-successful, if you do not know each other for long time and just decided to get married, also if love marriage is happen against parents will and they do not support them when problems arise. Mutual understanding and love is necessary in the relationship, without which any realtionship can not be complete. No matter it is arrange or love marriage but for any kind of relation, there should be respect and caring for each other. The most important thing in the relation which provides a strong base for relation is trust.Where there is trust, no problem can stay for longer.One should prefer partner’s thinking and views, its not mean that you ignore your own views but should try to understand partner’s feelings. When there will be a feeling of understanding, sacrifice and of love for each other, relation become stronger automatically.
So marriage is decided in heaven, then what happen if it is love marriage or arranged, but love,trust and mutual understanding makes relationship stronger.
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